I generally like Menhir the way it is. People who get mad about others using a menhir to get closer to a cropper should just play better next time or use catapults to resolve their issues.
I think you're missing the point of this thread 
what you're talking about is not even relevant to the discussion so far
In many Kingdoms the King and Dukes are Mates, they then recruit as many players as possible, then when it suit them they kick the players from the Kingdom and start farming them. I guarantee you that this selfish and Mafia type of Play result in 3 out of 5 new Players not playing the game again..
Personally I have seen this happening and I was even a victim of this type of Play by Idiot Self Centered Players.
While I agree that this is what turns away new players from wanting to stay, I disagree that it is entirely the fault of existing (experienced) players. There is little to no incentives for having a new player in your kingdom, who will provide little to no contribution overall to your teamplay. Teaching them takes a huge amount of time and effort, and even then it does not guarantee any pay-off in the end.
The game is simply designed in such a way that it is easy to take up and understand the basic concepts (which will at most teach you how to be a good farm for others), but to understand and apply the advanced concepts take a lot of time and perseverance from two parties - the experienced players who will have to explain to them, and the new players themselves who have to be willing to commit and learn.
Honestly from my own experience most of the time the problem comes from the new players, who simply do not wish to try to gain a deeper understanding of the game. 90% of experienced players actually do not mind explaining how the game works (I would say they actually enjoy sharing their knowledge).
Right now you are forced to use the card game Finish Now feature as long as you have it in your hero inventory.
Allow us to choose whether to use the card game or gold Finish Now, instead of forcing us to use the card game before gold.
Just give an extra option/prompt of whether to use the card or to use gold.
1. What I mean is the revival resource discount, as described by Tiitana. I wasn't aware you could use gold to revive the hero 
unless you're talking about bucket p2w
2. Yes, a more obvious timer could be done
Just an example of what I mean. The aesthetics can be worked on by your designers of course
While we're on the topic of heroes:
Right now both features require you to click into the hero's attributes page to check
Both heroes get an even split of 10k/2 = 5k exp each.
Def points are calculated differently according to who supplied the "defense strength", so the guy who supplied 1m will get most of the def points.
0 prestige new players joined to a kingdom on day 8 but they left after relocation.
CM & CSR:
Harsher punishments like do not let them choose what acc they want to keep and just delete them all
This. You can make any number of rules, people will still find a way to cheat or exploit the system as that is the greatest advantage they can gain. If there were any proper punishments in place we wouldn't have to discuss this issue at all.
